[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.bohnicka.cz\/muzeme-si-za-to-sami\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.bohnicka.cz\/muzeme-si-za-to-sami\/","headline":"M\u016f\u017eeme si za to sami?","name":"M\u016f\u017eeme si za to sami?","description":"Nebudu se jist\u011b m\u00fdlit, kdy\u017e nap\u00ed\u0161u, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s si u\u017e v \u017eivot\u011b pro\u0161el zklam\u00e1n\u00edm. V\u011bt\u0161ina si nav\u00edc touto nemilou situac\u00ed \u010di a\u017e dlouhodob\u00fdm stavem, doprov\u00e1zen\u00fdm nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdmi fyzick\u00fdmi i psychick\u00fdmi pocity, pro\u0161la opakovan\u011b. Pro\u010d n\u00e1m dokola ubli\u017euj\u00ed ti, kter\u00e9... <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bohnicka.cz\/muzeme-si-za-to-sami\/\">Pokra\u010dovat ve \u010dten\u00ed &rarr;<\/a>","datePublished":"2020-01-20","dateModified":"2023-04-30","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.bohnicka.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.bohnicka.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b70ca3e57a61efa655568ea1bab21ec867ae74beaf8b182b9ca53fe6fcb8cee7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b70ca3e57a61efa655568ea1bab21ec867ae74beaf8b182b9ca53fe6fcb8cee7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"bohnicka.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.bohnicka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a369508_w4369_t1581609437.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.bohnicka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a369508_w4369_t1581609437.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.bohnicka.cz\/muzeme-si-za-to-sami\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":525,"articleBody":"Nebudu se jist\u011b m\u00fdlit, kdy\u017e nap\u00ed\u0161u, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s si u\u017e v \u017eivot\u011b pro\u0161el zklam\u00e1n\u00edm. V\u011bt\u0161ina si nav\u00edc touto nemilou situac\u00ed \u010di a\u017e dlouhodob\u00fdm stavem, doprov\u00e1zen\u00fdm nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdmi fyzick\u00fdmi i psychick\u00fdmi pocity, pro\u0161la opakovan\u011b. Pro\u010d n\u00e1m dokola ubli\u017euj\u00ed ti, kter\u00e9 milujeme? Pro\u010d v\u017edy zklamou ti, kter\u00fdm v\u011b\u0159\u00edme? Mo\u017en\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b proto! Je na \u010dase p\u0159estat se pt\u00e1t, pro\u010d mi zase ubl\u00ed\u017eil a polo\u017eit si ot\u00e1zku, pro\u010d jsme to op\u011bt dovolili. \t\u00a0\tTato sice nev\u00edtan\u00e1, ale b\u011b\u017en\u00e1 sou\u010d\u00e1st \u017eivota, n\u00e1s prov\u00e1z\u00ed u\u017e od d\u011btstv\u00ed a stejn\u011b jsme se j\u00ed do te\u010f nenau\u010dili vyh\u00fdbat? No jen si vzpome\u0148te, kdy\u017e jste zjistili, \u017ee Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161ek neexistuje. A co teprve slzi\u010dky pro prvn\u00ed ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky. \u010clov\u011bk si m\u016f\u017ee tis\u00edckr\u00e1t p\u0159\u00edsahat, \u017ee u\u017e nikdy a ono se \u201cto\u201d nakonec p\u0159ece jen d\u011bje znovu. Ob\u010das m\u00e1me pocit, \u017ee kdy\u017e se od n\u011bkoho budeme dr\u017eet d\u00e1l, \u017ee n\u00e1m nem\u016f\u017ee ubl\u00ed\u017eit. Ve skute\u010dnosti t\u011b ale m\u016f\u017ee potr\u00e1pit stejn\u011b tak ten, komu jsi na bl\u00edzku, jako ten, od kter\u00e9ho ut\u00edk\u00e1\u0161. Vzd\u00e1lenost nikdy nebude dostate\u010dn\u00fdm obrann\u00fdm ter\u010dem. T\u00edm se ale m\u016f\u017eeme st\u00e1t my sami! V prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b nikdy nezapom\u00ednejme na to, \u017ee je jenom na n\u00e1s, co komu odpust\u00edme, p\u0159es co se chceme p\u0159en\u00e9st a co u\u017e nem\u016f\u017eeme a nechceme p\u0159ekousnout. \t\u00a0\t\u010casto taky, i kdy\u017e u\u017e tu\u0161\u00edme, co bude n\u00e1sledovat, m\u00e1me tendenci to oddalovat. Pro\u010d to st\u00e1le trp\u00edme a nechceme se dobrovoln\u011b vzd\u00e1t vztahu, kter\u00fd nefunguje, \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd n\u00e1m z\u00e1m\u011brn\u011b l\u017ee nebo kamar\u00e1da, kter\u00fd n\u00e1s za z\u00e1dy neust\u00e1le pomlouv\u00e1? Vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00edme si fale\u0161n\u00e9 iluze a l\u017eeme u\u017e tak\u00e9 sami sob\u011b. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to kdysi toti\u017e bylo to jedin\u00e9, co n\u00e1s d\u011blalo \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdmi. Pokud n\u00e1m na n\u011bkom z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, v\u017edy budeme naivn\u011b doufat, \u017ee je to cel\u00e9 t\u0159eba jinak, \u017ee se to cel\u00e9 nakonec vy\u0159e\u0161\u00ed a vyjasn\u00ed a p\u0159ejeme si, aby v\u0161echno bylo zase jako d\u0159\u00edv. Naopak ale cht\u011bjme, aby u\u017e nic nebylo jako d\u0159\u00edv. Pamatujte, \u017ee va\u0161e \u201cv\u0161echno zase jako d\u0159\u00edv\u201d vedlo k situaci, ve kter\u00e9 jste te\u010f. \t\u00a0\tA pokud je toho na v\u00e1s n\u011bkdy prost\u011b a\u017e p\u0159esp\u0159\u00edli\u0161, jednodu\u0161e p\u0159ibrzd\u011bte &#8211; nebo si rovnou dovolte zastavit a z\u016fstat na pot\u0159ebnou dobu mimo realitu. Nebojte se b\u00fdt chv\u00edli klidn\u011b sobec, oddychujte a \u010derpejte s\u00edly. Nenu\u0165te se do n\u011b\u010deho, \u010d\u00edm si moment\u00e1ln\u011b ani vy sami je\u0161t\u011b nejste jisti. A a\u017e se v\u00e1s p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b n\u011bkdo zept\u00e1, pro\u010d mu nedok\u00e1\u017eete znovu naplno v\u011b\u0159it &#8211; polo\u017ete mu ot\u00e1zku, pro\u010d on nedok\u00e1\u017ee b\u00fdt up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fd.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.4\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"M\u016f\u017eeme si za to sami?","item":"https:\/\/www.bohnicka.cz\/muzeme-si-za-to-sami\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]